My first solo trip to Paris in December | solo travel tips

I finally did it! I went on my first solo trip. I went to another country alone, although I cheated a bit and went to somewhere I have been before it is Paris but I wanted to experience it alone. I had been there three times before, with family and friends but going alone had a whole different feel to it.

“We travel, some of us forever, to seek other places, other lives, other souls.” – Anais Nin

At first, I was quite nervous and even though I was hungry, I couldn’t eat. But that soon changed when I started exploring. I was staying in Le Marais, which were full of all kinds of shops and boutique places. I grabbed my bag, put on my perfume (Miss Dior) and headed out I walked all the way to Notre Dame cathedral and I was met with guards with big guns casually standing outside. I went inside and walked around, taking pictures. It was beautiful and I felt so calm and peaceful in there.

I then explored a bit or ‘flaneur’ before going in to the Shakespeare and Co. That became my new favourite place. Spent quite a lot of time on the upstairs reading books and poetry. There were also a board full of notes by strangers that has came there which was sweet. I went to a cafe in St Germain for dinner; this was my first time eating alone and it was quite introspective. I ate and got a lot of writing done before going towards the latin quarter and somewhat getting lost and ending up at the ‘Paris eye’.

Next day, I decided to explore the north – went to near Bastille, areas surrounding that. Near the canal. I then went back to Le Marais and had the most amazing Spaghetti Bolognese.

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Inside the Notre Dame

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Cafe deco

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‘When you’re traveling with someone else, you share each discovery, but when you are alone, you have to carry each experience with you like a secret, something you have to write on your heart, because there’s no other way to preserve it.” – Shauna Niequist

 

Tips for going on your first solo trip

  • Learn few words of their language – It is polite and for just in case moments. I always made sure to begin all my conversations in French when entering shops/cafes and I found the French people to be so friendly with me.

 

  • Plan a little – Don’t plan everything, but have an idea what you want to do, the transport links, have a map on your phone. I usually look at a map and roughly can navigate. I kind of know the map of Paris and I am familiarising myself with the whole arrondissement thing.

 

  • Book – Always have a book with you. I took a small book and notebook. Read on the way there and back. Wrote a lot of things, when I had the chance. Kept a little journal of my trip.

 

  • Firm no – Be firm and say no to any unwanted advances or attention. I didn’t have any bad experiences, I did have people approaching me but they were all polite and friendly, so no harm there.

 

  • Be open to new things – Go to new places, try something new and talk to new people. Try a food, you’ve never tried before. I spoke to new people and learned something new, I enjoyed that.

 

  • Enjoy your surroundings – Take a moment, look around and appreciate all thats on offer.  Take lots of pictures but learn when to put your phone/camera away. Just walk around and ‘flaneur’ in a new setting, you’ll feel great.

 

  • Trust your gut feeling – Do what you want, what feels right and if something doesn’t feel right then trust that.

 

Most of all have fun 

I had a great time alone, I would do it again and I would be probably less nervous next time since I have already done it once now. I think the whole feeling of freedom is amazing. Being able to do what you want, go where you want and eat what you want is freedom. Being in a new place where you don’t know anyone is open to all kinds of possibilities.

Paris still remains as my favourite city. I also decided to soon explore France; I’d like to go to Biarritz, Nice and Bordeaux.

Have you been to another country alone?

Where did you go recently?

Whats your favourite city?

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